Listen

Listen to her. Read what is texting you. There is nothing sexier than a guy who really listens to a girl. Most guys get so caught up in what they plan to say to a girl. But even how big it is. We get distracted and forget to listen to what he is really saying. I know that feeling. It happens to me all the time. Sometimes I feel like I need a dose of Addreall before listening to my girlfriend’s conversations. It’s almost like she keeps prattling on and on about nothing. But if you try really hard, you’ll realize that she’s actually saying something. Usually she talks about her problems or some gossip she heard about someone. She tries to keep up. Even if the topic is boring. Even if you don’t like drama. Fake it until you make it. Just don’t let him know you’re not that interested. If all else fails, he tries to talk about something that they are BOTH interested in talking about. Like the lingerie bowl. Wouldn’t we all wish we had a girl like that?

Affectionate (Show Emotions)

Make sure he knows you care. Using emotional plays like “CRAZY” or “AWESOME” is a good way to show that you care about what they say. Comfort her when she feels down. That is what separates an acquaintance from a friend and a friend from a boyfriend. The fact that you care. But you have to keep it sexy. Tell him you’d like to be there to give him a “hug.” This turns the girls on. It lets them know that you have a heart and that you are there for them. Show them that you are that guy who can be there for them when they are sad, depressed, angry, lonely. It’s things like that that turn a friendship into something more.

sexy compliments

Try an attractive compliment. Don’t tell her she’s amazing. Most likely, she already knows. Tell him why he’s amazing. Do it subtly, without telling him directly. A few years ago, she used to date an artist. Actually, she didn’t know that she had a hidden desire and talent to draw superheroes. She has been doing it since she was 9 years old. I found out when I texted him:

“I have a sneaking suspicion that you’re a closet creative nerd. What secret talent do you possess?”

It’s not the easiest thing to do, but if you do it right, you’re way ahead of the game. Most guys FAIL at this miserably. You can see more examples of sexy and flirty compliments on page 119-131 of our best-selling ebook and video course. Do this right and it will give you an incredible advantage that you never thought you had.

Escalate the conversation. Make it sexy. joke with her Some guys are afraid that picking on a girl will make her lose attraction to you. Quite the contrary. Teasing a girl creates a challenge. It makes the girl think that you are not as interested in her as you thought. It creates doubts and a little confusion. She will be drawn to this challenge and will find a way to hook you up again. That’s why the text above is so perfect. He teases her in an endearing way, calling her a “creative” nerd. Every time I send this type of text to a girl I like, I always get responses indicating that she is trying to appear normal or normal. It never fails.

Take it to the next level

Configuration to date. Make her wish for something…with you! It is one of the best ways to convert a girl in a text message. Show him that you’re not afraid to take things further. Show him that you will lead the way. Ask her. Whether it’s for a walk in the park, a visit to the zoo or a quiet dinner. Have to.