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How to Tell Him You Love Him Without Scaring Him

So you’ve been seeing a man you really care about, maybe even love. You want to tell him over and over again. You want to shout it from the rooftops! But is it too much to tell him repeatedly that you love him? Yes! There are other ways to show him that you care without persistently vocalizing those three words that can scare guys so much. If you follow this advice, you can turn your relationship from a fun and flirty dating game into a long-term love affair without scaring your guy.

Men are sensitive creatures, whether they like to show it or not. While they need to know that you love them, many of them will freak out if they actually hear you say it. In our culture, saying “I love you” carries much more weight than words alone. Make sure you pick the right time and place to verbally express your feelings for him. Don’t do it in front of his friends where he might be embarrassed. Don’t do it in front of your friends, where you may feel too much pressure to reciprocate. When you tell him you love him, do it in an appropriate place where you are alone (or at least where no one else is specifically looking or listening to you).

Women tend to fall in love much faster than men. We tend to be more emotional in general, more in touch with our feelings and more willing to express them vividly. Men, however, like to be absolutely certain before agreeing to anything. A guy wants to know if he is positive about his feelings for you before he makes affirming statements. That’s why it’s important that you don’t pressure him into saying those three words before he’s ready. It’s just as important that you don’t get hurt feelings over the fact that he might take a lot longer to say it than you. This is how the sexes are connected.

It’s also a good rule of thumb to be reasonable about how much you express yourself in this way. Too much too soon can scare him. Try other ways to let him know you care about him. Hear him rant when he’s having a bad day. Cook him dinner when you know he’s had a long day at work. Use his imagination!

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